The cultural lens greatly impacts the way we do things. Culture is often compared to an iceberg, in the sense that what we can only perceive what above the surface. The top of the “cultural iceberg” is made up of things we can observe and of what people allow us to see such us what they wear, do, eat, and say. How can we relate more deeply with people?
Unfortunately, the large portion of the iceberg lies below the surface and it is not visible. That part is made up of values, assumptions, personality, beliefs and other characteristics that shape and drive behavior.
In order for us to relate more deeply to others, it is essential to learn how to better connect with people in a meaningful way. In other words, it’s necessary to get close enough to people to be able to unleash the elements that shape and drive their behavior and so we can get to know them.
Are you prepared to have meaningful relationships with others?